Thursday, January 9, 2014

A Family Resemblance

It still amazes me when someone I do not know walks up to me, mentions my father by name and then asks if I am his son.

A short time before Christmas I ran into an old friend who told me that he had come across an old photograph I might be interested in.

It was my good fortune to see this gentleman again just a week later.

He handed me an envelope containing the photograph he told me about previously.

I thanked him and then opened the envelope.

The photograph was very special to me.

It was taken during the 1950's when my father and one of his brothers both worked at a restaurant.

My father looked extremely young.

My father was about half my current age and his brother a few years older.

Also in the picture was the owner and some of his other employees.

That photograph has occupied my thoughts a great deal since.

I have shown this photograph to a number of people and there are some things people have been kind enough to point out.

They point out that there is a family resemblance between my father and his brother which is not surprising.

Some even say that my father and I share a resemblance.

I find this most interesting because I wear glasses, have had a beard for decades and have a large frame whereas my father was clean shaven, had no need for glasses and was a very trim gentleman.

Even though there are physical differences between us people can still see my father's characteristics in me.

Although he's been gone for a very long time and there are major differences in our appearance, I still encounter people who look at me and ask if he was my father.

Somehow, they can see past all the differences and still see a bit of my father in me.

This puts me in mind of the old hymn “They'll Know We are Christians by Our Love”.

Jesus put it this way.

John 13:35 (NIV) - "By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”


As Christians, that is the family resemblance we should all share.

Love not only for other Christians but for everyone.

Matthew 22:37-40 (NIV) Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”



Blessings,
Jim Pokorny
The Other Brother Jim
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