This will be a slight departure from my customary offering
style.
This is a follow up to my post from the other site to which I contribute (listed at bottom).
Like the other, it is about peace.
Mainly, it is about how liberating peace with others is.
Faith and experience have taught me that having peace with others can happen in three ways.
First, there is being at peace with those who are at peace with us.
Second, there is being at peace with those who absolutely refuse to be at peace with us.
Finally, there is being at peace with those who will not even acknowledge their need for peace with us.
The first is easy.
The other two can be challenging.
The common denominator in all three cases is our having peace with all three.
Paul understood this.
Romans 12:18 (NRSVue) - If it is possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.
We should be at peace with all.
And our peace with others depends on our choice, not theirs.
Having mutual peace with another is easy.
Having peace with someone who refuses to have peace with us is difficult.
Having peace with someone who will not acknowledge their need for peace with us is also challenging.
Yet being at peace with all three truly liberates us.
I compare our lack of peace to an anchor.
Our lack of peace with another holds the ship of our lives in place and prevents us from moving forward.
Pulling up that anchor and carrying it with us is not enough.
It will only tie us down again in the future.
Having real peace with others means cutting the chain.
It leaves the anchor behind and, once abandoned, it will never hinder us again.
God does not merely want us to survive.
God wants us to thrive.
Galatians 5:22-23 (NRSVue) - By contrast, the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against such things.
For us to truly thrive, God wants us to have peace with Him and with others; even with those who will not have peace with us.
Blessings,
Jim Pokorny
The Other Brother Jim
Look for me at faithfulfeetteam.blogspot.com on Friday, June
4, 2026.
I will be back here on Friday, June 12, 2026






