Thursday, October 25, 2012

Small Talk with a Special Friend

Leviticus 19:32 (NIV) - Stand up in the presence of the aged, show respect for the elderly and revere your God. I am the Lord.


1 Timothy 5:1-2 (NIV) - Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.

When I was young I worked part time for a pharmacy.

One of my duties was running the daily delivery route.

Along with making deliveries to private residences, I also had to make deliveries to all the local nursing homes on a daily basis.

One of the memories that I carry from those days I will always cherish.

It involved a particular resident at one of the nursing homes and the conversation I had with her.

Perhaps conversations would be the better word.

I met her when she became a new resident at one of the nursing homes I visited daily.

I dropped off the day’s delivery at the Nurses’ Station and found her seated nearby.

I realized she was a new resident because I had not seen her there before.

She said hello and I responded in kind.

She then asked me to guess her age which under normal circumstances is a very dangerous game for a man to play.

In this particular case, I intentionally underestimated by a few decades.

She broke out in a big smile and then told me her actual age.

She then spoke about what things were like when she was a little girl those many decades ago.

I listened to her for as many minutes as I could spare without getting into trouble with my employer.

I excused myself and told her I that I enjoyed our visit.

I then told her I looked forward to our next visit.

We exchanged smiles and I left to continue my deliveries.

I returned the next day and found her seated in the same chair.

After I made the delivery, I approached her.

We had the exact same conversation as the day before.

I realized that she neither remembered me nor the conversation we had a mere 24 hours before.

That is the way it continued each and every day that I came by.

I am glad I was able to spend a few minutes with her each day in this way even if she would not be able to remember it, or me.

I am glad I was able to provide her with a few brief moments of happiness every day.

Scripture, such as the verses I opened with, reminds us how we are to treat the elderly.

We are to treat them with respect.

We are to be a source of encouragement to them.

We are to treat them as if they were our own parents.

When we do, two things happen.

First, we please God.

Second, we make some really special memories.


Blessings,
Jim Pokorny
The Other Brother Jim
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Thursday, October 11, 2012

Happy Trails

One of the unexpected consequences I have encountered in writing on a weekly basis is that sometimes I learn something new about myself.

This is one of those times.

I am a big fan of the Western genre.

I am particularly fond of old Westerns.

Now don’t get me wrong, I know very well that these are works of fiction.

I also know that not everyone appreciates them to the same degree as I do.

Westerns, especially the old ones, tend to subscribe to the same predictable formula.

In the old Westerns, the villain was usually a man of wealth who wanted more than he already had.

He often employed hired guns to help him acquire even more often at the expense of the innocent.

The hero, on the other hand, was quite different.

He wore a white hat so that he was easily recognizable.

He was a man of pristine character who never did anything wrong.

And just when all seemed lost, the hero would ride in and set everything right.

Once this was accomplished, the hero would ride off into the sunset and the story would end just the way I knew it would from the outset.

There is a phrase about "art imitating life" and after thinking about it, I have discovered more than a few parallels to my faith that helps me understand just why I enjoy the old Westerns so much.

The real "villain" we face in this world is Satan who has much at his disposal.

So much, that he even tempted Jesus with it.

Matthew 4:9 (NET) - Again, the devil took him to a high place and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their grandeur. And he said to Him, "I will give you all these things if you throw yourself to the ground and worship me."

Greed is a motivating factor for evil in the old Westerns.

Greed continues to play a major role in the ills of the world.

Scripture warns us of its dangers.

1 Timothy 6:10 (NET) - For the love of money is the root of all evils. Some people in reaching for it have strayed from the faith and stabbed themselves with many pains.

Scripture also warns us of the "hired guns" we will face.

Ephesians 6:12 (NET) - For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world rulers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavens.

What about "the hero" who wears the "white hat"?

Scripture tells us that Jesus, our deliverer, also wore white clothing.

He did so at the Transfiguration.

Matthew 17:2 (NET) - And He was transfigured before them. His face shone like the sun, and His clothes became white as light.

Jesus, unlike even the best of human beings, truly was of pristine character.

Hebrews 4:15 (NET) - For we do not have a high priest incapable of sympathizing with our weaknesses, but one who has been tempted in every way just as we are, yet without sin.

And just when all seemed lost for a fallen world, Jesus came and set things right as only He could.

1 John 4:10 (NET) - In this is love: not that we have loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins.

And after He put things right, He "rode off into the sunset" figuratively speaking, of course.

Mark 16:19 (NET) - After the Lord Jesus had spoken to them, he was taken up into heaven and sat down at the right hand of God.

So that there is absolutely no misunderstanding, I want to make things absolutely clear.

I know that what God reveals in scripture is factual and my faith rests solidly on these great truths.

I would do nothing to demean or belittle it.

I also know that the old Westerns are fictional stories and nothing more.

But after thinking about this, I now have a better understanding into why I enjoy the old Westerns as much as I do.

I now have a much better insight into my own character.

So, in the words of Roy Rogers, "Happy trails to you, ‘til we meet again."


Blessings,
Jim Pokorny
The Other Brother Jim
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Thursday, September 27, 2012

The Hardest Person to Forgive



I have written on the topic of forgiveness before and how it is something with which people, including Christians, struggle.

This is true when it comes to forgiving others.

This time I would like to address our need to forgive the one who is often times our harshest critic, namely, us.

We have a tendency to be harder on ourselves than anyone else.

We recall our past mistakes, our past shortcomings and our past failures.

We then tend to replay them in our minds over and over again.

We may even find it difficult to sleep sometimes when our thoughts become occupied with the past.

The sad part is that this is completely unnecessary.

While we cannot undo the things we have done wrong, we can be forgiven them.

How?

We can start by confessing our sins to Him.

He knows them already, but this is for our benefit.

1 John 1:8-9 (NET) - If we say that we do not bear the guilt of sin, we are deceiving ourselves, and the truth is not in us. But, if we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous, forgiving us our sins and cleansing us from all unrighteousness.

Next, we forgive others.

Matthew 6:12-13 (NET) - For if you forgive others their sins, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, your Father will not forgive you.

Many people find this part difficult.

Most worthwhile things in life tend to be difficult in the beginning.

Just remember that it is never too late and we don’t have to do this alone.

As long as we draw breath, there is hope.

Even the thief, while hanging on a cross, found hope when he turned to Jesus.

Luke 23:42-43 (NET) = Then he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come in your kingdom." And Jesus said to him, "I tell you the truth, today you will be with Me in paradise."

With forgiveness comes the removal of guilt.

Psalm 103:12 (NET) - As far as the eastern horizon is from the west, so He removes the guilt of our rebellious actions from us.

The last time I checked, that was pretty far.

Remember, the past is just that.

Once you place your faith in Jesus, you are no longer the person you were.

2 Corinthians 5:17 (NET) - So then, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation: what is old has passed away - look, what is new has come!

With His help, we can let go of the past and the feelings of guilt to which we cling.

We can let go of that which robs us of the present and acts as a barrier to what is a brighter future.

We can then live the kind of life that He intends us to live.

John 10:10 (NET) - The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I have come so they may have life and may have it abundantly.

Guilt is like an anchor that holds the ship of our lives in place.

He can do more than help us pull up the anchor.

He can cut the line and set us completely free.


Blessings,
Jim Pokorny
The Other Brother Jim
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Thursday, September 13, 2012

Ready... Set...

The second week in September always finds me in a contemplative mind set.

This is the week during which Mother and I used to celebrate her birthday.

It is also the week that marks the anniversary of the September 11th attacks on America.

This year my contemplation turns to readiness.

In particular, one’s spiritual readiness.

The readiness to close one’s eyes in this world and open them in the next.

Mother and I had a wonderful relationship and I am indebted to her for a great many things.

Of course, I am indebted to her for bringing me into this world, for raising me and for loving me.

Beyond this, I am indebted to her for establishing a foundation of faith within me.

A foundation on which I continue to build upon today with confidence.

When I was a child, she taught me with kind and loving words.

In her later years, her arthritis became ever more debilitating and our roles reversed themselves.

She began to depend on me more and more.

It was then that she taught me by example.

As time went by, she was able to do less and less because the physical pain she endured grew more and more.

In spite of that, her love of the Lord and her trust in Him grew deeper with each passing day.

Even though she left world quite suddenly, I know that she was prepared spiritually.

As I thought on these things, my thoughts turned to those who lost their lives in the September 11th attacks eleven years ago,

All were simply pursuing their daily routines.

Suddenly, in a heartbeat, everything changed.

Some died instantly.

Some moments later.

Others, while attempting rescue.

I cannot help but wonder...

Of the many that lost their lives on what began as just an otherwise bright, sunny, routine day in September, how many were not spiritually ready?

How many had not yet come to know Jesus as their savior?

After you ponder that, take a moment to ask yourself a very important question.

"If my time on earth ran out today, would I be ready to close my eyes in this world and open them in the next?"

If your answer to that question is anything but "Yes", there is still hope.

That hope is in Jesus Christ.

John 3:16-17 (KJV) - For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God sent not His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.

Neither Mother nor I expected her last day on earth to be just that.

But, as believers, we both knew her last day on earth would not be her last day.

We knew this because of Jesus Christ and the faith we have in Him.



Blessings,
Jim Pokorny
The Other Brother Jim
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Thursday, August 30, 2012

Can You Relate?

How long have you known God?


Now, let’s turn the question around.

How long has God known you?

Here is what He said to Jeremiah.

Jeremiah 1:4-5 (NET) - The LORD said to me. "Before I formed you in your mother’s womb I chose you. Before you were born I set you apart. I appointed you to be a prophet to the nations."

You are not an accident.

You are alive because God planned your existence.

What about the time between your conception and your birth?

Here is what the Psalmist reveals.

Psalm 139:13 (NET) - Certainly you made my mind and heart; you wove me together in my mother’s womb.

Even in the earliest stage of your earthly existence, God was there with you.

He expertly wove you together cell by cell and organ by organ.

Just how intimately does God know you?

Here is what Jesus said.

Luke 12:6-7 (NET) - Aren’t five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten before God. In fact, even the hairs on your head are all numbered. Do not be afraid; you are more valuable than many sparrows.

Do you know how many hairs there are on your head?

God does.

That is how intimately He knows you.

He even knows your needs?

Here is what Jesus had to say about that.

Matthew 6:8 (NET) - Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.

God planned for your existence.

God was at work on you in the womb.

God knows you intimately.

God knows your every need.

Face it, God knows you.

In fact, He knows you even better than you know yourself.

You were created to have a relationship with God.

A relationship, however, requires two working toward the same goal.

God is half of that relationship,

God has done and continues to do everything He can to make His relationship with you possible.

You are the other half of that relationship.

What are you contributing to it?


Blessings,
Jim Pokorny
The Other Brother Jim
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Thursday, August 16, 2012

The Root of All Evil

It seems as though many of the TV channels I have relied on for documentaries have turned to reality programs as a means of garnering bigger ratings.


Not surprisingly, many of these programs incorporate greed as a driving force.

Thinking about this reminded me of an experience I had many years ago.

I was invited to a party at a private home.

The husband and wife hosting the party were both extremely nice.

It was obvious from their home and its furnishings that this couple had done quite well for themselves.

As I genuinely liked this couple I could not help but feel happy for them.

As the celebration went on, I happened to overhear a conversation that two of their guests were having as they paused behind me.

One said, "If I owned all of this, I could finally be happy."

The guest he said this to agreed with him.

I could not disagree more.

Wealth and possessions do not bring happiness.

The pursuit of wealth and possessions often makes true happiness difficult, perhaps even impossible. to obtain.

We have heard it said that money is the root of all evil.

We have even heard that this can be found in the Bible.

That is not exactly true.

Here is what the Bible really says...

1 Timothy 6:10 (NET) - For the love of money is the root of all evils. Some people in reaching for it have strayed from the faith and stabbed themselves with many pains.

It is not money that is the problem, rather, it is the love of money.

Scripture provides us with many examples of this.

In the twelfth chapter of John, Mary anointed the feet of Jesus with an expensive aromatic ointment made of pure nard.

Judas chastised her by stating that the oil could have been sold and the money given to the poor.

John tells us what really motivated Judas.

John 12:6 (NET) - Now Judas said this not because he was concerned about the poor, but because he was a thief. As keeper of the money box, he used to steal what was put into it.

What did Jesus say about Mary’s action.

John 12:7 (NET) - So Jesus said, "Leave her alone. She has kept it for the day of my burial."

Mary showed that she cared more about Jesus than she cared about money.

In the fifth chapter of Acts, we read of a man named Ananias and his wife Sapphira.

Ananias sold a piece of property and withheld some of the money with his wife’s knowledge.

Peter reminded Ananias that this was a lie to the Holy Spirit.

Acts 5:3 (NET) - But Peter said, "Ananias, why has Satan filled your heart to lie to the Holy Spirit and keep back for yourself part of the proceeds from the sale of the land?

Ananias paid for this lie with his life as he collapsed and died.

Three hours later, Sapphira continued her husband’s lie.

She then paid with her life in a similar way.

The love of money or possessions is a barrier that separates us from real happiness.

Even worse, it separates us from God.

God both demands and deserves to be first in our lives.

When we place more value on money or possessions than we do on God, we practice idolatry.

God makes His feelings very clear regarding this.

Exodus 20:3 (NET) - You shall have no other gods before me.

When we place God first, He helps us prioritize everything else.

That includes money and the possessions it will buy.

Placing God first in our lives is the real key to happiness.



Blessings,
Jim Pokorny
The Other Brother Jim
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Thursday, August 2, 2012

Remembering Kindness

The other afternoon, I stopped at a local restaurant to enjoy a cup of coffee with friends.


There was a man waiting in line who looked me over and then called me by my name and then asked if he was correct.

I told him he was, but I on the other hand had absolutely no recollection of this man.

He removed his sunglasses and introduced himself.

It was only then that I realized I indeed knew this man because we had once worked together over twenty five years ago.

He had yet another surprise for me.

He told me he remembered a kindness I had shown him those many years ago.

Not remembering it myself I had to ask what exactly that kindness was.

After all, a great deal of time had passed and those days were long ago.

At this point in my life I can barely remember what I had for breakfast Tuesday morning.

He related the incident and as he related it the memory of it returned.

This man had made a mistake on the job and knowing our employers the way I did, I feared they would make an example of this man.

I knew this man needed the job and firing him would bring tremendous financial hardship on him.

I spoke to his supervisor and a member of management and told them of his circumstances hoping they would perhaps show him some leniency.

My words fell on deaf ears.

They told me that the decision to fire him had already been made and I received a rather stern speech for trying to intercede for him.

A coworker ran into him a few days later and told him about my efforts.

I had forgotten completely about the incident and my efforts.

This man did not.

Even though more than a quarter of a century had elapsed and the final outcome did not change, this man remembered how I tried to intervene on his behalf.

It reminded me how fortunate I was to have someone intercede on my behalf.

Paul reminds me that I am a sinner.

Romans 3:23 (NET) - For all have sinned and fall short of the Glory of God.

Even in my fallen state, I have someone who intercedes on my behalf. And where I failed in my attempt, the one who intercedes for me will never fail.

Romans 8:34 (NET) - Who is the one who will condemn? Christ is the one who died (and more than that, he was raised), who is at the right hand of God, and who also is interceding for us.

Why would Christ intercede for me?

I can do nothing to earn salvation.

I certainly can do nothing to deserve it.

If I were to get what I truly deserve my situation would be most dire.

It is because of God’s love and mercy that Christ paid the price I could never hope to pay.

John 3:16-17 (NET) - For this is the way God loved the world: He gave His one and only Son, so that the everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world should be saved through Him.

It is through Christ’s willingness to follow His Father’s will to the cross that I have hope.

That is a kindness I will never forget.


Blessings,
Jim Pokorny
The Other Brother Jim
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